...Japanese Feminity desire...

The World can have passe for so many devolepment and revolution but, men still are in the command. The machism in the world is still prevalent; finding a woman in the comand, is almost impossible; the womens who are who has the power is countable in one hand, for example; how many women have you seem in the highest role in a company? in commanding a nation? or in the top job?
In the modern society, the men still are the leaders, even after a long journy of feminism revolution, fighting for their rights and their places in the society, they still are not equal with men.
Japan is still considerated a masculine society. I would compare it with the muslin society in same facts as, for example inside the families; In japan men is always the of the family, will not find as in america, in same case, that the woman is the front of the family, or also for example, the men are always the first to be served in the table, they always say the last word, or if are a woman and are travelling alone, many places, they don't accept you to stay there if are alone because it would be really not well seeing, those facts are similar with muslim traditions; but if you hear their reason (japanese and muslim) for it, its easy to understand their point, they kind of "want to protect their women", whose is more fragile than them, Many people would see it as an arrogant or ambition thought.
Although, it is really contractiory how the new generation are acting about this fact. The new generation may have change a little bit about the concept of masculinity. For the youngh male generation Feminity is more desirable trait among males in Japn than in most western countries. They are, kind of, looking for being more "feminine" as possible, its mean, for what they others society would be conciderated a female behavior, they don't see it like that, for example, vanity, kindness or sensuality. Also what in other western countries are still not well seeing here is already normal as metrosexuality